Life Is a Team Effort

What a difference three days make! We went from rain and fog Monday morning at Butler Park, to a breathtaking sunrise Thursday morning on Mt. Bonnell. How blessed we are to have the opportunity to witness such splendid surprises from Mother Nature.

“As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.” — Marianne Williamson

Action: Life is a team effort, so connect, share, and ask for help.

After graduating from U.T., I decided that Texas was too small. I wanted to experience the “real world”, so I moved to the BIG APPLE!

I was impressed by the fast pace and fascinated by the around-the-clock harmonious honking of horns and the lifestyle of my 11 million new friends. To avoid looking like a tourist, I copied their behavior, rushing through the city with confidence, head down, and avoiding eye contact with anyone. No one was interested in connecting with me. So I became disinterested in connecting with them.

But just as quickly as Manhattan had allured me, so had it come to irritate me. I wanted to make eye contact, to exchange a smile, or to just say hello. I wanted an apology from the man who came within inches of hitting me with his car while I was legally crossing the street. But no, not in Manhattan. I felt my spirit become cold and jaded. I became less confident and less tolerant. I began to view my 11 millions new friends as competition. And I eventually joined their choir, impatiently honking my horn.

Then one cold, overcast and gloomy winter day, after emerging from the subway station, it became clear: Texas wasn't too small after all. So I moved back!

Much of my New York City experience was a result of my immaturity and naïvety. I wasn't experienced, strong or courageous enough to “be me” back then. I'd like to think that moving there today would be very different. But when I do visit, I notice the same things: everyone is on a cell phone, listening to an ipod, or otherwise disconnected from the sounds and the people around them.

In Austin, I see the same behavior. I see that everyone is virtually connected to something, somewhere, but unconnected to those immediately around them. What irony that we live in a wonderfully virtually connected world, but are less connected with each other than ever.

I'll be the first to admit that there are many times when I don't want to talk, make eye contact, or be connected to more than the Internet allows, but I also notice that too little real connection is addictive and dangerous. I can quickly become absorbed in my own world, unaffected by situations that should move my spirit, and begin to rush through life with little tolerance for others. But once I finally connect, share, and ask for help, and once I become accountable to more than myself, life becomes so much sweeter, pleasant, and fulfilling. And that gives others the confidence to connect share and shine their brightest light. Life is a team effort.

Clint Chapman, a junior from Oregon who plays for the U.T. men's basketball team, expressed my sentiment perfectly yesterday. Until yesterday, Clint had been in a slump. After hearing about his terrific practice, I sent him a “great job” text. He responded by writing “it is a team effort”, noting he's been practicing and working hard with the coaches. Regardless of your goals, life obstacles, or celebrations, I encourage you to go about each of them with a connected and team spirit, as this is the BEST way to joyfully get where you want to go and abundantly live life.

After watching this week's inspirational video, I am certain you'll be ready to display this kind of teamwork.

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